Improve Your Relationship With Your Spouse

Hi all,

This time I would like to share about marriage knowledge. For me, it's feel great sharing this kind of knowledge and it's fun :)

Well, what do you know about marriage? As it is for me, it's my new life sharing everything with someone I love until I die no matter what happen. It's the gathering of two souls that truly love each other, and that nothing but God can separate. Sweet isn't it? ^_^

   

Whether you are newly weds, a couple with children, or an empty nest couple, try read this steps on how to improve your relationship with your spouse or specifically your husband.

Think About It

Think and identify your feeling and love towards your husband. Is it true love? Do you still think a lot of your significant other? Can you say you truly love him? Would you accept giving away your life to save his? And do you love him, even with all of his flaws? If you honestly say yes to these questions, then proceed reading the next step. But if you say no to most of these questions, sorry to say you not in love with him and you such a disappoint spouse of him. hmmmm.. okay next step!

Take Care Of Your Looks

Is it so important? Put on some make up? Well, some ladies not really into make up stuff. And for that, try this 5 minutes make up http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=shpZ47Mvxfg. It's easy and fresh. Basically, it's not all about make up, apart from that, make sure your hair is always clean and you yourself look neat. Honestly, even though your significant other must love you even if you are least attractive person in the world, but he sure will be happy if he sees you are caring about yourself. 

Talk Like A Friend

Conversation with your spouse is important. When you talk like a friend with your husband, there is no such things talking about house, domestic things, like bills and the children and money. God, even for me it's stressful. Talk like a friend here means you going to talk to your husband about things you'd talk with your best friend. Well, not about women and soccer, or about food or soap opera, but talk about your dreams, things that truly matters.

Say I Love You and Show Love

I love you.. easy to say, right? So say it, never let these words unsaid to your spouse. But, say it honestly and with all your heart. Say it when you guys wake up, or just send a message if you guys in your workplace respectively. Make sure to say that he is the most handsome and attractive person in the whole universe, and how lucky you feel for being with him. Make sure to tell them you love even their flaws. Say it everyday. After all, isn't it true for you? So the other person needs to know.

Make Love

Make love often, if not, at least 3 times a week. Having an active sexual life with your loved one is extremely important, which it will make you guys always feel intimate with each other and pleased with good humor. Don't put your sex life on the low end of your priority list. Do have sex. After all, sex, with love, is the best thing ever. 

If There's a Problem, Solve It

If your spouse does something wrong, don't yelling and screaming at him. Sit and talk, communication is a key. After all, he is not only your lover forever, but also your best friend forever.

And, pray together. If you''re comfortable talking about it, discuss what you pray about.

Never Say Bad Things About Your Husband In Front Of Children

Avoid say bad things when talking to your husband especially in front of your children, which it will make children have a negative image about relationships, and you will feel guilty later. Make sure you always say good things. For instance, if your husband forgot something important, don't say "so stupid"or "doesn't care about anyone else but him", think before you say anything when you feel angry, and instead of saying such bad words, try say "I really do love this man, but he should be a little more attentive about things."

So finally, here are the rest of ways on improving your relationship with your spouse: Speak your truth in a respectful way, share your feelings often, lower your expectations, create goals together, support each other's individual goals, say please and thank you no matter how big or small the act, respect each other, and many more...

Good Luck & All the best.. :)

Resources: wikihow, simplemarriage, yourtango, about.com